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		<title>Comment on Looking For A Way Out by Sher</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sher</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 21:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is good that you recognize the excuses that you have been giving yourself which stops you from completing your so-called responsibilities, so if you know that, say, the design courses would help you in the future, just hang in there and finish it up! 

Come on, Faz. Don&#039;t give up so soon. It is frustrating that you&#039;re always alone in your journey of discovery, but hey, this is your own, and yours only. Be proud that you don&#039;t blindfold yourself and let others push you around.

Challenges will always be there and it is game over when you start doubting yourself. Stand firm and you will get there, eventually.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is good that you recognize the excuses that you have been giving yourself which stops you from completing your so-called responsibilities, so if you know that, say, the design courses would help you in the future, just hang in there and finish it up! </p>
<p>Come on, Faz. Don&#8217;t give up so soon. It is frustrating that you&#8217;re always alone in your journey of discovery, but hey, this is your own, and yours only. Be proud that you don&#8217;t blindfold yourself and let others push you around.</p>
<p>Challenges will always be there and it is game over when you start doubting yourself. Stand firm and you will get there, eventually.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Looking For A Way Out by Jad [Alt] Kaizer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jad [Alt] Kaizer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 10:13:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As what Naoko said. Time to stop the &#039;take a step and ask are we there yet?&#039; process.

Probably you need to convert your excuses to allow you to run away, to excuses to allow you to commit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As what Naoko said. Time to stop the &#8216;take a step and ask are we there yet?&#8217; process.</p>
<p>Probably you need to convert your excuses to allow you to run away, to excuses to allow you to commit.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Looking For A Way Out by Adyla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adyla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 09:49:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I have a feeling that the dreams aren’t worth pursuing, also the feeling that I won’t be able to forgive myself for running away.&quot;

This sentence of yours struck me. I get these moments too. For one my dreams are really big and some people might see me and think &quot;Does she really think her dreams will work?&quot;
I often think that to myself as well. Like will I have enough finance to support this crazy dream of mine? Will I be able to find the perfect location for my dreams? Will there be any market and will I gain any profit?

At the end of the day I always come up with the same answers. &quot;Who cares!&quot;
So what if I cant finance my dreams? So what if there is no profit?
Those things are in the unforseen future. All I can do is focus on what I can do now. To achieve my dreams. Either in planning or market research or anything to help myself get one step closer to that dream. If there is something that comes in the way, just learn how to turn it to your advantage.

I&#039;m just sharing with you my own little self-conflict and hope that in anyway it helps yours.

Even if its a stupid crazy dream I truly believe that you shouldn&#039;t let it go. Continue dreaming and work towards that dream.

It&#039;s alright to blame other things. Its always easier than blaming yourself. I don&#039;t think there is a person who never ran away (even for a little while).

Run! As long as you&#039;re moving towards something. ;)
Cheer up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I have a feeling that the dreams aren’t worth pursuing, also the feeling that I won’t be able to forgive myself for running away.&#8221;</p>
<p>This sentence of yours struck me. I get these moments too. For one my dreams are really big and some people might see me and think &#8220;Does she really think her dreams will work?&#8221;<br />
I often think that to myself as well. Like will I have enough finance to support this crazy dream of mine? Will I be able to find the perfect location for my dreams? Will there be any market and will I gain any profit?</p>
<p>At the end of the day I always come up with the same answers. &#8220;Who cares!&#8221;<br />
So what if I cant finance my dreams? So what if there is no profit?<br />
Those things are in the unforseen future. All I can do is focus on what I can do now. To achieve my dreams. Either in planning or market research or anything to help myself get one step closer to that dream. If there is something that comes in the way, just learn how to turn it to your advantage.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m just sharing with you my own little self-conflict and hope that in anyway it helps yours.</p>
<p>Even if its a stupid crazy dream I truly believe that you shouldn&#8217;t let it go. Continue dreaming and work towards that dream.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s alright to blame other things. Its always easier than blaming yourself. I don&#8217;t think there is a person who never ran away (even for a little while).</p>
<p>Run! As long as you&#8217;re moving towards something. ;)<br />
Cheer up.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Looking For A Way Out by Naoko</title>
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		<dc:creator>Naoko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 15:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Might I offer a suggestion? 

Instead of asking why, which usually provokes a defensive posture, try &quot;What is it that makes me do this? What does doing this mean to me?&quot;

Each time you answer, pose the question again to the answer. You&#039;ll reach a moment when it suddenly pops up at you. :3</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Might I offer a suggestion? </p>
<p>Instead of asking why, which usually provokes a defensive posture, try &#8220;What is it that makes me do this? What does doing this mean to me?&#8221;</p>
<p>Each time you answer, pose the question again to the answer. You&#8217;ll reach a moment when it suddenly pops up at you. :3</p>
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		<title>Comment on Merentas Desa by Adyla</title>
		<link>http://www.thesilentroom.com/2010/01/22/merentas-desa/comment-page-1/#comment-3366</link>
		<dc:creator>Adyla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2010 12:25:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahhaa. cruel seniors. My merentas desa was by the beach. XD</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hahhaa. cruel seniors. My merentas desa was by the beach. XD</p>
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		<title>Comment on Merentas Desa by Naoko</title>
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		<dc:creator>Naoko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2010 07:23:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ganas punya senior. XD</description>
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		<title>Comment on A Poverty of Words by Hikage</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hikage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2010 10:45:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I get your point. 

I don&#039;t have an extensive vocabulary like you do, but you know my current state now. So if you need my assistance in weaving your words, just gimme a holler.

I am after all, very emotional, sensitive and sentimental.

&lt;strong&gt;Silencers: You also happen to be a helpless blurcase, lol.&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get your point. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have an extensive vocabulary like you do, but you know my current state now. So if you need my assistance in weaving your words, just gimme a holler.</p>
<p>I am after all, very emotional, sensitive and sentimental.</p>
<p><strong>Silencers: You also happen to be a helpless blurcase, lol.</strong></p>
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		<title>Comment on Because You Are A Spiritually Weak Malay by Albert Ng</title>
		<link>http://www.thesilentroom.com/2010/01/09/because-you-are-a-spiritually-weak-malay/comment-page-1/#comment-3361</link>
		<dc:creator>Albert Ng</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 19:09:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In addition, have you seen this video? Quite worth watching for one fellow Malaysian in the video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cV89G-wrgDQ

&lt;strong&gt;Silencers: Yes, I saw it. And it was absolutely pathetic. Have you seen 101 East? There&#039;s a much better exchange in that one. Watch it here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDac5GXjLMo&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In addition, have you seen this video? Quite worth watching for one fellow Malaysian in the video:<br />
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cV89G-wrgDQ" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cV89G-wrgDQ</a></p>
<p><strong>Silencers: Yes, I saw it. And it was absolutely pathetic. Have you seen 101 East? There&#8217;s a much better exchange in that one. Watch it here: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDac5GXjLMo" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDac5GXjLMo</a></strong></p>
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		<title>Comment on Because You Are A Spiritually Weak Malay by Albert Ng</title>
		<link>http://www.thesilentroom.com/2010/01/09/because-you-are-a-spiritually-weak-malay/comment-page-1/#comment-3360</link>
		<dc:creator>Albert Ng</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 18:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>+1 for researching and finding these scans! And yes it&#039;s insecurity and &#039;protecting the mentally weak&#039; and easily swayed - this is prevalent too in our bans of controversial culture and pussy rock bands (MLTR!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>+1 for researching and finding these scans! And yes it&#8217;s insecurity and &#8216;protecting the mentally weak&#8217; and easily swayed &#8211; this is prevalent too in our bans of controversial culture and pussy rock bands (MLTR!)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Diversity is God&#8217;s Will by Naoko</title>
		<link>http://www.thesilentroom.com/2010/01/15/diversity-is-gods-will/comment-page-1/#comment-3359</link>
		<dc:creator>Naoko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 02:10:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remember reading this sometime ago, long before the controversy erupted. It&#039;s a sobering reminder.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember reading this sometime ago, long before the controversy erupted. It&#8217;s a sobering reminder.</p>
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