Comments on: Looking For A Way Out

By: cherane

cherane — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 07:35:39 +0000

(it’s ok if you don’t post this up :))
Really, from what Ganaesh told me, you’re not that kinda guy. According to him, you’re someone who go out and get things done and not afraid to do it too. Even doing the little details.
And isn’t not getting something from doing something means that you’re doing it because you love it? Lol, from what I can see, you’re a creative person, introspective and you worry about the little details. (I don’t presume to know you) But maybe, you’re doing things that you’re supposed to do. Tho it’s not what you previously wanted, but happiness can only be defined by you, so if someone asks you, its not likely that they will understand.
Everyone is a hypocrite anyway.
And being lost is just a temporary situation, you’ll eventually find yourself anyway. What’s important is that at least you know what you’re made of.
Go ahead, dream. Things will work out in the end.

By: Sher

Sher — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 21:48:00 +0000

It is good that you recognize the excuses that you have been giving yourself which stops you from completing your so-called responsibilities, so if you know that, say, the design courses would help you in the future, just hang in there and finish it up!

Come on, Faz. Don’t give up so soon. It is frustrating that you’re always alone in your journey of discovery, but hey, this is your own, and yours only. Be proud that you don’t blindfold yourself and let others push you around.

Challenges will always be there and it is game over when you start doubting yourself. Stand firm and you will get there, eventually.

By: Jad [Alt] Kaizer

Jad [Alt] Kaizer — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 10:13:55 +0000

As what Naoko said. Time to stop the ‘take a step and ask are we there yet?’ process.

Probably you need to convert your excuses to allow you to run away, to excuses to allow you to commit.

By: Adyla

Adyla — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 09:49:24 +0000

“I have a feeling that the dreams aren’t worth pursuing, also the feeling that I won’t be able to forgive myself for running away.”

This sentence of yours struck me. I get these moments too. For one my dreams are really big and some people might see me and think “Does she really think her dreams will work?”
I often think that to myself as well. Like will I have enough finance to support this crazy dream of mine? Will I be able to find the perfect location for my dreams? Will there be any market and will I gain any profit?

At the end of the day I always come up with the same answers. “Who cares!”
So what if I cant finance my dreams? So what if there is no profit?
Those things are in the unforseen future. All I can do is focus on what I can do now. To achieve my dreams. Either in planning or market research or anything to help myself get one step closer to that dream. If there is something that comes in the way, just learn how to turn it to your advantage.

I’m just sharing with you my own little self-conflict and hope that in anyway it helps yours.

Even if its a stupid crazy dream I truly believe that you shouldn’t let it go. Continue dreaming and work towards that dream.

It’s alright to blame other things. Its always easier than blaming yourself. I don’t think there is a person who never ran away (even for a little while).

Run! As long as you’re moving towards something. ;)
Cheer up.

By: Naoko

Naoko — Sat, 30 Jan 2010 15:42:53 +0000

Might I offer a suggestion?

Instead of asking why, which usually provokes a defensive posture, try “What is it that makes me do this? What does doing this mean to me?”

Each time you answer, pose the question again to the answer. You’ll reach a moment when it suddenly pops up at you. :3