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	<title>Comments on: Believing is Seeing</title>
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		<title>By: ruthz</title>
		<link>http://www.thesilentroom.com/2007/11/09/believing-is-seeing/comment-page-1/#comment-882</link>
		<dc:creator>ruthz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Nov 2007 13:40:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey there
though i m a lil unsure what is the real situation like . but dun give up .. u will be alright .. just hang in there =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey there<br />
though i m a lil unsure what is the real situation like . but dun give up .. u will be alright .. just hang in there =)</p>
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		<title>By: zongz</title>
		<link>http://www.thesilentroom.com/2007/11/09/believing-is-seeing/comment-page-1/#comment-881</link>
		<dc:creator>zongz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 08:42:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>go read dan brown loRRRR...happier rite? :P

&lt;strong&gt;Silencers: Meh, holidays finish adi, where got time to read?&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>go read dan brown loRRRR&#8230;happier rite? :P</p>
<p><strong>Silencers: Meh, holidays finish adi, where got time to read?</strong></p>
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		<title>By: Jad [Alt] Kaizer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jad [Alt] Kaizer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Nov 2007 11:46:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, believing is indeed your good side, but here lies the problem - what if the person whom you believed in doesn&#039;t even believe in her/his own self, or what she/he is doing?

That&#039;s quite the problem, ya know - when they don&#039;t believe in themselves/what they&#039;re doing, they tend to care less about the job and instead do crappy stuff to cover the holes up, and prays in full hope that it gets a pass, then dump the responsibility to the others if crap happens.

So... as much as you want to believe, it is also a small yet important part of yours to help look out for problems and fix it out. Most of the time you can&#039;t see the whole picture if everyone keeps mum about themselves (well, that&#039;s what our education taught us best) and it gets really tricky, so you really have to be proficient in observing people. Not only through speech and action (WARNING : could be heavily skewed via sugarcoating, another trait our education taught us best), but also how their minds run.

I know I&#039;m not in the position to be the total critic - well, I could already be part of the not-believing-in-self category, you know. But I do think that&#039;s the missing puzzle where you should be looking into, and inspire.

May the best comes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, believing is indeed your good side, but here lies the problem &#8211; what if the person whom you believed in doesn&#8217;t even believe in her/his own self, or what she/he is doing?</p>
<p>That&#8217;s quite the problem, ya know &#8211; when they don&#8217;t believe in themselves/what they&#8217;re doing, they tend to care less about the job and instead do crappy stuff to cover the holes up, and prays in full hope that it gets a pass, then dump the responsibility to the others if crap happens.</p>
<p>So&#8230; as much as you want to believe, it is also a small yet important part of yours to help look out for problems and fix it out. Most of the time you can&#8217;t see the whole picture if everyone keeps mum about themselves (well, that&#8217;s what our education taught us best) and it gets really tricky, so you really have to be proficient in observing people. Not only through speech and action (WARNING : could be heavily skewed via sugarcoating, another trait our education taught us best), but also how their minds run.</p>
<p>I know I&#8217;m not in the position to be the total critic &#8211; well, I could already be part of the not-believing-in-self category, you know. But I do think that&#8217;s the missing puzzle where you should be looking into, and inspire.</p>
<p>May the best comes.</p>
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		<title>By: YungJie</title>
		<link>http://www.thesilentroom.com/2007/11/09/believing-is-seeing/comment-page-1/#comment-879</link>
		<dc:creator>YungJie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Nov 2007 02:09:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I usually step up when nobody wanna do it, that&#039;s what I am good at, handling so called &quot;dirty job&quot;. I myself have mixed reaction about others, I see them as coward, selfish and arrogant (not you mind you) even though their academic is far superior than mine, yet I somehow pity them for theirlack of confidence, or ignorant at best.

At the end of the day, one shall stand, one shall fall, and somebody gotta do it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I usually step up when nobody wanna do it, that&#8217;s what I am good at, handling so called &#8220;dirty job&#8221;. I myself have mixed reaction about others, I see them as coward, selfish and arrogant (not you mind you) even though their academic is far superior than mine, yet I somehow pity them for theirlack of confidence, or ignorant at best.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, one shall stand, one shall fall, and somebody gotta do it.</p>
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		<title>By: Edo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Edo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Nov 2007 00:48:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel you man.

But I took the task because I think I can do it better than others and I don&#039;t wanna see my club sink. If the club still sinks, then I believe that I slowed down the sinking process lol.

&lt;strong&gt;Silencers: At least your side is afloat, waiting to sink. Mine has sunk already, and I&#039;ve been trying to pull it out of the trench - and it&#039;s definitely a lot tougher than it sounds.&lt;/strong&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel you man.</p>
<p>But I took the task because I think I can do it better than others and I don&#8217;t wanna see my club sink. If the club still sinks, then I believe that I slowed down the sinking process lol.</p>
<p><strong>Silencers: At least your side is afloat, waiting to sink. Mine has sunk already, and I&#8217;ve been trying to pull it out of the trench &#8211; and it&#8217;s definitely a lot tougher than it sounds.</strong></p>
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